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(612) 252-2840

Kathryn (Katy) Graves

Attorney, Shareholder

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Assisted By
Debbie Maestaz
(612) 252-2804

Family law is personal—it touches lives and hearts in ways the law often doesn’t. With over 40 years of experience, I work to ensure my clients feel heard, respected, and supported through some of life’s most challenging transitions. 

I focus on building trusted relationships with my clients, actively listening to understand their unique goals and priorities. Whether navigating complex negotiations or advocating in court, I am committed to ensuring their voice is at the center of the process. 

I rely on Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) in most cases, as it often provides clients with a less adversarial and more efficient path to resolution. Mediation is a key focus of my practice, particularly in divorce matters, allowing families to shape their futures collaboratively. I also bring extensive experience in child custody and parenting time issues, helping families find workable solutions that prioritize their needs. 

It’s deeply rewarding to make a meaningful difference in my clients’ lives. As The Beatles famously said in The End, ‘And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.’ This simple yet powerful principle guides my approach to helping clients navigate their most challenging moments. 

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EDUCATION 

  • J.D., cum laude, University of Minnesota Law School, 1984 
  • B.S., Political Science, University of Minnesota, 1980  

    BAR ADMISSIONS 

    • Minnesota 
    • Supreme Court of Minnesota 
    • United States District Court, District of Minnesota 

    HONORS 

    • 2022 Notable Women in Law, Twin Cities Business 
    • Best Lawyers in America, 2015–present 
    • Minnesota Super Lawyers, 2002–present; Top 50 Women, 2017-2018; Top 100 Women, 2005-2006 
    • Top Lawyer, Minnesota Monthly Magazine, 2022-2023 
    • North Star Lawyer, Minnesota State Bar Association, 2013–2023 

    PROFESSIONAL 

    • Minnesota State Bar Association 
    • Hennepin County Bar Association 
    • Financial Early Neutral Evaluator, Dakota, Hennepin, and Ramsey Counties 
    • Adult Guardian Ad Litem (GAL), Anoka, Hennepin, and Ramsey Counties 
    • Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, Minnesota Chapter 
    • Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, 2009–Present 
    • Minnesota Board of Marriage and Family Therapy, 2014–Present; Vice Chair, 2018-2020; Chair, 2020; Complaint Panel Member, 2018-Present 

    COMMUNITY 

    • Mentor, University of St. Thomas School of Law, 2014–Present 
    • Volunteer, Volunteer Lawyers Network, 1993–Present 
    • Volunteer, Southern Minnesota Regional Legal Services, 1985–Present 

    ARTICLES 

    • Author, “Divide and Conquer,” Best Lawyer “Women in Law” Business Edition magazine, Spring 2019 
    • Author, “Family Matters,” Best Lawyer Business Edition magazine, Summer 2016 

    PRESENTATIONS 

    • “Four-Way Settlement Conferences,” Minnesota Chapter AAML Divorce Camp, September 27, 2013 
    • “Will I Be Okay?” Minnesota Chapter AAML Divorce Day Camp, Co-Presenter, 2013  
    • “Family Law From A-Z,” National Business Institute, 2012 and 2013 
    • “Zealous Advocacy and The Ethics of Family Law,” Olmstead County Family Law Section, 2012 
    • “What Family Court Judges Want You to Know,” National Business Institute, 2012 
    • “Child Support and the Psychology of Support,” A Minnesota Chapter AAML Divorce Day Camp, Co-Presenter, 2012 
    • “Child Evaluation in Custody and Support Litigation,” National Business Institute, 2011 
    • “Preventing Critical Financial Mistakes During Divorces,” National Business Institute, 2008 
    • “A Roadmap Through Divorce Proceedings,” National Business Institute, 2008 
    • “Successful Financial Settlements for Your Divorce Client,” National Business Institute, 2007 
    • “Crucial Discovery Techniques in Minnesota Dissolution Cases,” National Business Institute, 2005 
    • “Equitable Distributions in Divorce Settlements in Minnesota – Valuation, Tax and Other Issues,” National Business Institute, 2005 
    • “The Impact of Bankruptcy on Dissolution of Marriage in Minnesota,” National Business Institute, 2003 and 2004 
    • “Handling Minnesota Divorce Cases from Start to Finish,” National Business Institute, 2003 

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